Post Office Funeral

Every griefreminds usof every other grief. I hardly knew this woman,yet I weep,as I drive her ashesto the post officeand mail themto her sister in Florida. Both pallbearer and priest,I pray silently,as I lay her box to restinside another box,shroud it gentlyin plain brown paper,and seal it upwith tape. “One last adventure,”I say to her,toContinue reading “Post Office Funeral”

Insights from 2021

For several years, I have used a physical planner* that includes lots of tools for reflection and goal-setting. I find the monthly planning pages particularly helpful. At the beginning of the month, there is an invitation to set three goals and, for each one, identify a “Reason Why” and “Distractions to Avoid.” At the endContinue reading “Insights from 2021”

Two Trees

Last year, about this time, I went on a much-needed retreat. It had been over two years since I was able to spend time at this particular retreat center: a beloved place where I have always felt connected and held.  The center is surrounded by forest. For the first seven years of my going there,Continue reading “Two Trees”

Dawn Chorus

My first Easterwithouta congregation.Restless,I risein the early morning hoursto the soundof the dawn choruspouring out timeless hymnsto the open sky. In a borrowed gardennot my own,I now feed birdsinstead of people,offering fresh waterand mealwormsin place of bread and wine. Instead of souls,I tend flowers.They areless complicated,but the needsare much the same. Above it all,where theContinue reading “Dawn Chorus”